Why is this forum called "Ask Naz"?So many people who knew Naz used to go to him for advice and guidance on matters and challenges in their lives. Friends, and myself included, could often be heard saying "ask Naz" when anyone needed a definitive answer or guidance. Either professionally as doctor, GP, or friend, Naz was always happy to spend hours talking to others to help bring harmony and equilibrium back into their world.
After researching the meaning of Naz’s name, it feels even more appropriate that we dedicate the name of our new community forum to the wonderful man that he was:
‘The name Naz is a Muslim baby name, meaning ‘Pride"’.
‘People with this name are excited by change, adventure, and excitement. They are dynamic, visionary and versatile, able to make constructive use of freedom. They fight being restricted by rules and conventions. They tend to be optimistic, energetic, intelligent, and to make friends easily. They may be changeable, restless, untidy, and rebellious.’
Rest in peace my darling Naz
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